Pithy Sayings

A few sayings I think are worth sharing.

1) Those who drink at the well should remember those who first dug it.

We benefit today from those who worked hard in generations before us. We should appreciate their efforts, which we now benefit from.

Taking it a step further, we are here due to our creator's wonderful handiwork. How often do we reflect on that? Evolutionist Richard Dawkins may not bother, but that is his problem. I prefer to thank my maker for his infinite wisdom.

2) If you want people to notice your faults, start giving advice.

After advice, people may say 'How dare they say that! Why they do this and they do that'.

They are starting to notice your faults to justify themselves and do nothing about your helpful suggestion. Best to keep it to yourself, unless asked. Even then, tread warily.

3) When things go wrong, some look at what they could have done better, while others just blame those around them.

When things go awry, there is always something we can learn. Rather than put the blame elsewhere - as many do - look inward for a solution. After all, we cannot control others behaviour, but we usually can do something about ourselves, and do better next time.


4) People will forget what you said, also what you did, but they never forget how you made them feel.

Our motive shouldn't just be popularity, as you cannot please all the people all of the time. However, we should care about the feelings of others. Then when they reflect on our words or actions, they will remember fondly how we made them feel.