When a person receives a warning of an impending disaster, the key difference between being either a survivor or a victim is not necessarily the gravity of the danger. It's more likely the response taken to the warning.
If swimming at a beach with some rips, how good a swimmer we are is less important than following the guidance of the lifeguards.
A good skier who goes off-piste may be in greater danger than a lesser skier who stays on a groomed and patrolled slope.
A happy relationship's durability isn't based on physical attributes or similar tastes. More important is how we treat our significant other, with love, respect and yielding when there is no important reason not to. If both do that, then harmony should be much more likely.
A fast runner may not win if they exceed their ability to maintain a certain speed. Pacing one's self realistically is a more successful strategy.


