What a nice feeling contentment is. It's like a warm log fire in a cosy living room. You are not thinking of the cold outside but simply enjoying where you are, with those you love. It's a state of mind, being happy with your current situation and with .
How many people can say they are content? Why do many fail to achieve it, even when living in a country where the lifestyle and standard of living should make it the default setting for all who live there? Here are a couple reasons.
Enough isn't enough.
The businesses in the commercial world entice us to want more, because as we acquire things, they make money. No one begrudges businesses making a living. However, advertising that encourages the notion that our happiness depends on buying new things or upgrading are deceiving us.
Why not be content with what we have, unless we really need something. The fact that we can afford something doesn't mean we have to buy it. When self denial is appropriate, it teaches moderation rather than indulgence. It also gives us something to look forward to when we do get something rather than the empty feeling that comes from having it all.
Having nice things makes me feel and look good.
That is true, to a point. The fact is the 'feel good' factor doesn't last long. The 'look good' aspect is true when dressed in expensive attire or seen driving a posh car, but it adds nothing to your worth as a human. In fact, if you achieved your wealth at the expense of others, it has lessened your worth as a human.
There is no frustration of feeling you need or deserve more. Of course, looking at others around us and comparing is not going to help if they have more than we do. Even if one doesn't have a lot, if what we have covers our most basic needs, then there is no reason to feel discontent.
What should be most valuable to us is our relationship with our Maker (if we have a faith), our loved ones and our health. A well paid, high pressure job will negatively affect all those things to a greater or lesser degree. A company could ditch us as soon as our use to them was over, whereas the important things will be there, if you haven't neglected them.
Suggestion.
Why not each day think about or write in a notebook something in your life that you are grateful for. Especially reflect on what is most important but also too easy to take for granted. Then our focus will be positive and appreciative. As a result contentment will follow.
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